The real reasons Scarlett Johansson and Romain Dauriac are divorcing

Her friends and family may not have been big fans of him

The Ghost In The Shell (2017) star told Playboy (via People) that a Ted Talk about relationships resonated with her, and the way she recounts it is pretty telling: Maybe she didn't want to hear warnings from her loved ones that Dauriac wasn't the man for her. "The person who was giving the talk was saying that in moments when you're starting a new relationship and your friends and family say, 'No, this is a red flag. This person is not for you'— why do we ignore those people who know us so well in the moments that we don't? And then we distance ourselves from them because we're embarrassed or whatever," she said. "It's interesting how sometimes all you need is your good friend to tell you that you're not acting like yourself. Or that they see something in front of you that is not beneficial for you or true to who you actually are…It's so easy to just go, 'No, I don't want to hear that.'"

She's not into monogamy

Ultimately, Johansson may have just been sick of being tied down. "I think the idea of marriage is very romantic; it's a beautiful idea, and the practice of it can be a very beautiful thing, [but] I don't think it's natural to be a monogamous person," she told Playboy (via People) in an interview conducted before her split was announced. "I might be skewered for that, but I think it's work. It's a lot of work." She added, "And the fact that it is such work for so many people—for everyone—the fact of that proves that it is not a natural thing. It's something I have a lot of respect for and have participated in, but I think it definitely goes against some instinct to look beyond."

The uber-private actress Scarlett Johansson shocked us all when news broke of her divorce from French journalist and art consultant Romain Dauriac in January 2017. What went wrong between this pair?

They moved too fast

The relationship between Johansson, who turned 32 in 2016, and Dauriac, who celebrated his 34th birthday in 2016, moved at light speed. They were first publicly linked in late October 2012 when cameras caught them on a lunch date after a mutual friend reportedly introduced them to one another. Ten months later, they were engaged. In September 2014, they welcomed daughter Rose Dorothy, and a month later they eloped. Had they slowed down enough to get to know each other better, they may have had a much shorter relationship with much less paperwork to do once they decided it wasn't going to work out.

This is the second time Johansson has tied the knot quickly. When she married Ryan Reynolds in 2008, they'd been dating for less than a year, and they wound up splitting in 2010. It seems that whenever Johansson falls fast, she falls hard. Unfortunately, a fire that burns so fast often burns out just as quickly.

They had nothing in common

A source told Us Weekly, "Scarlett initiated splitting up and made the decision. She felt like they didn't have much in common as far as lifestyle." A source close to Dauriac echoed the sentiment, telling People, "I've been expecting this for some time. Romain and Scarlett has never made sense to me. They aren't equals. There's always been something wrong with this picture."

Johansson previously told Parade that their differences were what attracted them to one another, but perhaps those contrasts were too great to be genuinely compatible. "We're interested in each other's worlds. He's interested in my weird, alien entertainment world. It fascinates him because it's so different than what he knows. And I like to go to art openings with him and talk about art and emerging artists with him. That's his passion."

There's a language barrier

Johansson revealed to Parade in April 2015 that Dauriac barely spoke English when they first got together, which may have created some challenges. "We met through friends in Paris. It was very romantic. And we became friends. When I'd come back to Paris I would see him," she said. "We started dating. He tells me that he learned English in one night! 'I barely spoke English when we met,' he said. I don't remember that at all. I felt like we were [always] talking the same language. Maybe it was the language of love."

The Captain America: Civil War (2016) actress also opened up about some of their arguments getting lost in translation. She explained that she was learning French to better communicate with Dauriac, telling late night host David Letterman in 2015, "When you're in a relationship with somebody you want to speak whatever language is easiest to get your ideas out as quickly as possible, so you can argue your point."

Her schedule was packed

Before she met Dauriac in late 2012, Johansson was already a powerful presence in Hollywood, but after they tied the knot, her career exploded. She starred in three films in 2013 (Don Jon, Her, and Under the Skin), three huge movies in 2014 (Captain America: The Winter Soldier, Chef, and Lucy), and a little old flick called Avengers: Age of Ultron in 2015. Her 2016 was just as busy. She voiced a lead character in the animated movie Sing, reprised her role as Black Widow in Captain America: Civil War, and went full-on old Hollywood for Hail, Caesar!. In June 2016, Box Office Mojo ranked her the highest grossing actress of all time.

It looks like 2017 is shaping up to be busy as well. She'll hit the promo rounds for The Ghost in the Shell (2017) and Rock That Body (2017), and she's currently filming Avengers: Infinity War (2018) and recording her voiceovers for Isle of Dogs (2018).

Johannsson previously spoke of the struggle to balance work and play. "There must exist a world in which I can balance those things, be able to raise a family and still make a film a year, or work on my own, develop things, do theater. I want to be able to have it all," she told The Wall Street Journal (via People) in 2014. She also told Parade in 2015, "[Marriage] takes a lot of work. It takes a man who's not only confident in the love that you have for one another, but confident in what he has going on in his own career. He has to be in a field that's completely different from yours. My husband's also involved in art. What's important to him is the recognition that he gets from his job, and that has nothing to do with my job."

He may have been jealous of her success

Perhaps Dauriac became too controlling for Johansson's liking, because she's previously expressed that feeling stifled is a pet peeve of hers. "I don't like jealous behavior," she told Marie Claire in 2013. "I don't mind an occasional check-in, but when somebody is passive-aggressively jealous, it's really unattractive because it shows a sort of insecurity…Oh, controlling behavior is awful. Nobody's going to say they love that."

Marriage wasn't part of her plan

In February 2014, Johansson told Elle UK (via People), "[Marriage is] really not important to me. The only time I ever think about it is when people ask me, 'Would I get married again? I'm not having kids anytime soon, I'm in a nice relationship, I'm working a lot and, like I said, it's not important to me." She added, "I got married when I was young and it was incredibly romantic and I liked being married, actually. But it is different. It's hard to put into words. To me, being in a functioning relationship doesn't mean you have to be married."

So what happened? Johansson didn't want to get married and didn't plan on having kids, and then she did both. Perhaps feeling pressured into those decisions made her itch to get out.

She may have missed home

Johansson and Dauriac divided their time between Paris and the United States, but because she's so close with her family, the actress may have wanted to stay home more often than her hubby would have liked. She told Parade that she's close with her family, who was based in New York City, especially her twin brother, Hunter. "I feel very connected to him. He's the most golden-hearted person. I think a lot of people spend their life looking for a partner, someone to be a mirror to reflect upon, to remind them that they've lived. You want someone to tell you what he witnessed in your life. My twin brother has always been that for me."

They're better off as pals

Though they reportedly broke up over the summer of 2016, Johansson and Dauriac remain friendly. They're still business partners for their Yummy Pop popcorn boutique in Paris and attended the grand opening together in December 2016. They attended an art opening together just days after their split was announced in January 2017, posing for photos and looking chummy as ever. It appears that though the marriage has run its course, their friendship and co-parenting relationship is strong.

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