The Tragic Truth About Gordon Ramsay
Gordon Ramsay seemingly has the perfect life. He's happily married to his longtime love, Tana Ramsay, and has six wonderful kids. Gordon loves his work and has built a fortune from his empire of Michelin-star restaurants. He has a super successful and lucrative reality TV career and has penned a slew of best-selling cookbooks and memoirs. Still, it's been far from plain sailing for the celebrity chef.
Gordon has been dealt financial, personal, and medical hardships. He's had his dreams shattered, suffered heartbreak, and engaged in self-destructive, potentially dangerous behavior. "I'm more excited about jeopardy than pressure," Gordon told The Guardian in March 2010. "The risk element, the dangerous element. There's something quite stupid about that." Gordon was on the brink of bankruptcy and faced financial ruin in 2009 after racking up huge debts by expanding his restaurant business too quickly. "Everything was on the line,” he told Sydney Morning Herald, admitting it was the most stressful and "awful four months I've ever had in business.”
Food critics have questioned if Gordon has lost his Midas touch. "The business failures and the scandals have tainted him a bit, and the food he makes isn't ahead of the game anymore," famed food critic Jay Rayner told The Guardian. However, you can never write Gordon off. His upbringing was turbulent and volatile, but he has overcome adversity time and time again and always emerged stronger. We're looking back at Gordon's tragedy-checkered past.
Gordon Ramsay had a violent childhood
Gordon Ramsay had a turbulent and challenging childhood. He was raised in poverty-blighted Scottish projects and moved 16 times before eventually settling in England. His father, Gordon Ramsay Sr., an alcoholic womanizer, was violent towards Gordon's mom, Helen Ramsay, and his children.
"He hit us when he was drunk, things were thrown, we had to run for our lives," Gordon told The Telegraph in 2008. "We spent many nights and weekends hidden in DHSS rooms. I remember being woken in the night, mum screaming, and rushing down the street in our pajamas to a neighbor's to wait for the police." Gordon said his mother would be hospitalized, and he and his siblings taken into care.
"Every time he got violent, any present that my brother, sisters, or I had given mum would be smashed, simply because he knew it belonged to her," Gordon wrote in a piece for CNN. "There were instances when the police were called to take him away; mum was taken to the hospital while we kids were taken to a children's home." Gordon said he's vowed never to be like that with his six kids. "I want to be a role model for my children and have them look up to me," he wrote.
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Gordon Ramsay's brother struggles with addiction
Gordon Ramsay managed to escape the curse of substance abuse disorder, but his brother Ronnie Ramsay wasn't so lucky. Gordon's troubled sibling has struggled with heroin addiction and bouts of homelessness throughout his life.
"The drugs were a consequence of being the blue-eyed boy in the family and then being dropped by your dad," Gordon told the "Big Fish" podcast in April 2023. Gordon admitted to taking his brother to score drugs before their father's funeral. However, after Ronnie was jailed in Indonesia on drug charges in 2017, he stopped enabling him and stepped away.
"I was devastated, I wanted to scream at him," he wrote in his memoir "On Top of The World" in 2006. "In his adult life, Ronnie had been using drugs far longer than he's been clean, and it just devastates me that such a young, talented life is going to waste." Gordon said he didn't know if his brother would ever be able to get clean and that if he didn't, he was scared he'd die. "To get him to stop, you'd have to put him on an island," Gordon wrote. "It's grim, it's s**tty, it's paranoid. I'm amazed at what his body has learned to tolerate. But if he's not careful, he will kill himself."
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Gordon Ramsay's early career dreams were shattered
Gordon Ramsay is a hugely successful, world-famous, and super-rich chef. Still, it wasn't the career he had aspired to growing up. Ramsay had his sights set on becoming a professional soccer player. However, tragedy struck in the mid-1980s, instantly ending his football dreams.
Ramsay was on trial with the Scottish premiership team, Glasgow Rangers, when he suffered a nasty injury during training. "I was 18 at the time," Gordon told the "High Performance" podcast in October 2023. "I went into this 50-50 tackle, and all of a sudden, it was crunch. I laid there in such pain, tore my crucial ligament, and smashed my cartilage." He said he was immediately tossed aside by the team. "There was four, five guys behind me, instantly, to take my place."
"There's some fantastic memories, and there's some tragic memories," Gordon said on a trip back to Ibrox stadium. He remembered the heartbreaking moment he was told he could no longer play for the team. However, he channeled his frustration and energies into a new career as a chef, which helped erase the heartache over time. "Any form of pain I experienced here was eradicated when I won my third Michelin star," Ramsay shared. "And if I had not had the upset here with Ibrox, I don't think I'd be the chef I am today."
Gordon Ramsay and his wife suffered a heartbreaking loss
Gordon Ramsay and his wife, Tana Ramsay, are loving parents to six kids. However, sadly, they also lost a child when Tana suffered a miscarriage in 2016. "Although it's 7 years today, it still feels like yesterday. We all miss you every day," Tana captioned a photo of her family on Instagram in June 2023. "We love you, Rocky, forever in our hearts."
"We had a devastating weekend as Tana has sadly miscarried our son at five months," Gordon posted on Facebook in June 2016. "We're together healing as a family." Gordon admitted in an interview with People that the tragedy changed their lives. "There's no book that guides you through that loss, and so losing Rocky was really tough," he shared.
Gordon said the heartbreaking experience ultimately brought the family even closer together. And they strive to remember Rocky every day. The couple's Cornwall home is named in their son's honor, and each family member wears an item of jewelry with Rocky's name engraved. In April 2019, Gordon and Tana welcomed another son, Oscar. Although he can never replace Rocky, Oscar has helped ease the pain. "There was no substitute — far from it — but it brought us a bond that you'd never experience in a normal situation," Gordon said. Then, in November 2023, another baby boy, Jesse James, was added to the mix. "We have been blessed with this little bundle," Tana posted on Instagram. "Ramsay family definitely complete."
Gordon had a terrifying near-death experience
Gordon Ramsay had a terrifying brush with death in 2008. The chef and TV star was puffin hunting in the Westman Islands, Iceland, for a segment on his show "The F Word" when he slipped and tumbled 279 feet off a cliff face into the freezing cold North Atlantic ocean. Ramsay was underwater for around 45 seconds before pulling off his heavy climbing boots and waterproofs and swimming back up to the surface. The filming crew had to throw out ropes to haul him back to land.
Ramsay is a strong swimmer but instantly panicked after his lungs filled with freezing cold water. "I thought I was a goner," Ramsay told The Sun (via The Mirror). "They say cats have nine lives. I've had 12 already, and I don't know how many more I'll have."
Ramsay's near-death experience wasn't the only trouble he faced on the trip. Animal rights groups were out in force after one of the hunters snapped a puffin's neck, ripped the bird to pieces, pulled out its heart, and handed it to Gordon, who ate it raw. However, the puffin community exacted vengeance for their dead feathered friend. One of the birds bit Ramsay on the nose, resulting in a wound that required three stitches.