The Untold Truth Of Charlize Theron

Whether she's playing real life serial killers or kicking some serious butt in her numerous action roles, Charlize Theron is one actor who has never been afraid of tackling challenging subject matter. Much of her fearlessness is rooted in the difficulties she faced early on in her career, from a tragedy that spurred her migration to Tinseltown to a disquieting #MeToo ordeal.

By the age of 28, Theron was an Oscar-winner, and by age 30, she was honored with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Regarding the latter merit, Theron said (via BBC), "If somebody had told me then that this would have happened one day, I would have laughed in their face." Indeed, Theron has had to work hard to become the veritable movie star she is today.

Away from the silver screen, she has dedicated her life to many noble causes, from HIV awareness to LGBTQ+ activism and rejecting the sexism of the entertainment industry. Moreover, she has enjoyed a bankable stint as an ambassador to some of the most revered luxury brands in the world. Although she has enjoyed a Hollywood ending, Theron's story is undoubtedly unique. There are few A-list stars who have had quite the upbringing as the South African actor. After surviving a traumatic adolescence, Theron made it her mission to move to the States and pursue her dreams. But while she may have shed her accent, she has never forgotten her roots. This is the untold truth of Charlize Theron.

The relationship between Charles and Gerda Theron was fraught. While Charlize Theron has long idolized her mother, telling The Guardian that she is the living person she most admires, the same cannot be said for her father. "My father was a very sick man. My father was an alcoholic all my life. I only knew him one way, and that was as an alcoholic ... It was a pretty hopeless situation," Theron reflected to NPR.

In 1991, when Charlize was 15, her life would be forever changed after witnessing her father's death. Of coming home that fateful evening, she told ABC News, "Nature gives you instinct. And I knew something bad was going to happen." Armed with a gun, Charles threatened to kill both Charlize and her mother. To protect her daughter, Gerda shot him dead. "I know that if my daughter was in the same situation, I would do the same thing," Charlize admitted to ABC News. Acting in self-defense, Gerda was never prosecuted for her husband's death.

Charlize Theron opened up about the horrifying experience, emphasizing that she is not ashamed of discussing her trauma. "None of those bullets ever hit us, which is just a miracle. But in self-defense, she ended the threat," she told NPR. "This family violence ... I'm not ashamed to talk about it, because I do think that the more we talk about these things, the more we realize we are not alone in any of it."

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For Charlize Theron, ballet was an escape from her troubled home life, as well as the horrors of Apartheid. "Even though I was modeling, I always thought of myself as a dancer," she told The New York Times. But despite ballet being her first love, her dreams were soon shattered after a spate of injuries. "I was broke, I was taking class at the Joffrey Ballet, and my knees gave out," she told Far Out. "I realized I couldn't dance anymore, and I went into a major depression. My mom came over from South Africa and said, 'Either you figure out what to do next or you come home, because you can sulk in South Africa'." 

Accordingly, Theron told The New York Times that her mom "bought [her] a one-way plane ticket" to Hollywood, where she resided in a grubby motel. This was a particularly difficult time in her life. As Theron told CBS, she was "living from paycheck to paycheck" and, in one desperate moment, she stole bread from a restaurant.

Finding her footsteps in Hollywood also meant she was subjected to the advances of predators. In an interview with NPR, Theron revealed that a director touched her inappropriately in 1994, when she was a young actor struggling to make it in the industry. "That is the unfortunate thing about sexual harassment," she reflected. "You never get that moment where you feel like the tables are reversed and now he's finally getting it."

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Following "That Thing You Do!", Charlize Theron was suddenly inundated with movie work. She was cast alongside Keanu Reeves in 1997's "The Devil's Advocate," a part which, at the time, she told Bobbie Wygant was "the most challenging material I've ever had." Then, in 1999, she starred in Oscar-winner "The Cider House Rules." While Theron has never had any complaints about working with Keanu Reeves (who has?), she had difficulties acting alongside Tobey Maguire in the latter production. Speaking with V Magazine, Theron branded the Lasse Hallström flick "a difficult movie," revealing, "Tobey and I had a rough time."

But her most pivotal role came in 2003 when she transformed into serial killer Aileen Wuornos. With the encouragement of director Patty Jenkins, Theron took on the extremely demanding role, for which she gained 40 pounds. "I didn't think I could do it at first," she told Marie Claire. "The thing that convinced me ultimately was that I had never had — and I get emotional thinking about it — I never had somebody believe in me like that before ... And all of a sudden, this woman is sitting in front of me, and she's like, 'You have to. You're the only person who can.'" 

Regarding such a draining role, Theron told Advocate that the film is ultimately "about love, the need and the willingness and the eagerness and the hunger and the survival of wanting to be loved by somebody." An Oscar win followed and a superstar was born.

Charlize Theron isn't afraid to tackle demanding roles. In 2005, she starred in "North Country" as a miner facing sexist discrimination and sexual harrasment. This was a role Theron was particularly keen to take on due to parallels between her protagonist, Josey, who is based on Lois Jenson, and her own working class mother. As she explained to Roger Ebert, "When I was growing up, my mother was the only woman in the road construction business, so I knew some of what goes on." She also highlighted the importance of the film exposing "systematic degradation based on the fact that [Lois] happened to be a woman."

"North Country" was directed by New Zealand filmmaker Niki Caro. Speaking with Female, Theron discussed the importance of working with female directors, particularly with regards to such sensitive subject matter. "I think especially in the last two years there's been a great group of female directors," she said. "I mean coming off my little bit of success I thought, well, if anybody's gonna give me any power there's a handful of women that I really want to work with and Niki was one of them."

The New York Times praised Theron's performance in an otherwise mixed review, writing, "Ms. Theron could easily play the damsel in distress, but she keeps her performance grounded." The film saw the actor gain her second Oscars nod, though she ultimately lost out to Reese Witherspoon for her role in "Walk the Line."

Throughout the years, Charlize Theron has unfortunately been prone to numerous on set afflictions. During the filming of 2005's "Aeon Flux," she was almost paralysed. "It was very severe," she revealed to News.com.au. "I was a centimeter away from being completely paralyzed for the rest of my life. It definitely woke me up to, okay, you have to be prepared. It was nobody's fault, but it was just a freak accident where I landed on my neck. I had eight years of pain management, where I just couldn't get rid of the spasms and the nerve damage."

Although Theron resolved to avoid further injury, her attempts were ultimately in vain. In 2012, she was injured when making "Snow White and the Huntsman." This time, it was the temper tantrums of her character, Queen Ravenna, that caused the damage. "I screamed so much at people, I tore a stomach muscle, which I had never heard of that before," she told MTV. Then, in 2017, she cracked her teeth when filming "Atomic Blonde" due to clenching her mouth too hard, per Deadline.

When making "The Old Guard" in 2020, she faced some particularly nasty injuries. "I basically lost all control of my hand. [And I was] shooting all this stuff riding a horse with a hand that had no function in it. It wasn't until I was done with the film that I realized I needed three surgeries," she told Stellar.

Charlize Theron adopted her first child, a baby named Jackson, in 2012, per People. "I've always been very honest in saying I wanted a family. I've always known I wanted a family," she told Vogue following the adoption. "I don't think my mom could wait any more!"

Following her break up with Sean Penn in 2015, she adopted her second child, August, as reported by Us Weekly. At the time, she told W Magazine, "I do know that choosing to be a mom in my late 30s has been really great for me. It's given me perspective."

Adopting had been something that Theron had dreamt about since she was a child. "My mom has a letter that I wrote to her when I was eight years old and in the letter I ask her if we could, for Christmas, go to an orphanage to adopt a brother or sister for me," Theron revealed on Diane von Furstenberg's "InCharge With DVF" podcast. "My mom, when I went through my first adoption, actually showed me the letter. I was connected to the idea of having a family through adoption when I was eight years old." Asked whether she ever wanted a biological child, Theron said that the decision to adopt was largely shaped by her single status. "I was open to that idea with a partner. Once I, you know, chose to be a mother on my own, adoption was really my first choice," she revealed.

In recent years, the already versatile Charlize Theron has branched out even further. The 2010s saw her star in two highly disparate films, "A Million Ways to Die in the West" in 2014 and "Bombshell" in 2019. Comedy hasn't typically been associated with Theron. But these days, she's game for tickling our funny bones. She partnered with Seth MacFarlane for his aforementioned comedy Western, with the newbie director praising "Charlize's versatility" in an interview with The New York Times.

Meanwhile, "Bombshell," which sees Theron play Megyn Kelly, tackled a subject that has followed her around for much of her career: sexual harassment. Speaking with Vogue, she explained her willingness to play a character whose political views are diametrically opposed to her own. "It's something that no woman wants to be defined by, especially an ambitious woman who wants to be known for her work," she said. "All of the women involved had to face that. It was incredibly brave." In recent years, she's also lent her name to family-friendly projects, voicing Morticia in "The Addams Family" flicks and starring in upcoming Netflix fantasy "The School for Good and Evil," exhibiting her willingness to experiment as a performer.

If there is any word that typifies Theron's life story, "bravery" certainly comes to mind. From humble beginnings in South Africa to Hollywood stardom, Charlize has survived the Fury Road to become the Atomic Blonde she is today.