The Truth Behind TV's Most Iconic Moments

Throughout television history, there have been countless memorable moments. Everyone has their own favorite shows and scenes, and we remember the things that impacted us personally. But some moments have a broader appeal. Some moments were so impactful, they created a "where were you when" effect when they aired. These moments changed the TV landscape entirely.  

Most of the time, iconic TV episodes get that way by challenging the standards of their time. They present something so new, so exciting, or so jarring that they become the model to emulate. The images from these moments have been burned into our memories — those scenes that took on prejudices, the most shocking endings, and TVs biggest cliffhangers. 

Yet, while we all know the story on the screen from these scenes, the behind-the-scenes stories have remained more mysterious over the years. So we decided to explore how these scenes came to be, including all the challenges that led to them and the fallout that resulted from them. Here is the truth behind TV's most iconic moments.

Shortly after Ellen DeGeneres came out publicly in a Time story in April 1997, her character, Ellen Morgan, came out on the Ellen sitcom. The episode in which Ellen blurted out her truth to everyone in the airport terminal, "The Puppy Episode," is celebrated as one of TV's most important moments — but it wasn't always that way. 

Despite the episode nearly tripling the show's typical ratings, the negative response was immediate. According to BuzzFeed News, Ellen was hit with a parental advisory warning and critics questioned her "agenda." Advertisers pulled their ads, and ABC pulled the episode from airing in certain Southern cities altogether. Even GLAAD criticized DeGeneres and the show. Just a year later, Ellen was cancelled and its star labeled as "too gay" by some. 

But the trouble started earlier and closer to home. The title of the episode itself, while doubling as a red herring, was a reference to an executive's resistance to Ellen's coming out. "The writers told the executives that they wanted me to come out, because my character needed to be in a relationship after four years of not being in a relationship," she said on an anniversary episode of her talk show in April 2017 (via Vanity Fair). "Someone at the studio said, 'Well, get her a puppy; she's not coming out.'"

Fans of A Song of Ice and Fire knew the Red Wedding was coming long before it aired on television's Game of Thrones. According to the showrunners, it was that very scene that convinced them to take on the show in the first place.

The tragic slaughter within the walls of House Frey in "The Rains of Castamere" represents one of the show's lasting images. It became one of the most talked about TV moments in history and recordings of people reacting to the episode's shocking ending popped up everywhere. It further cemented Game of Thrones as a show that had no qualms about killing off its main characters. 

The episode was enormously successful, but it set in motion a rift between the show and books, the showrunners and the series author, George R.R. Martin. "At some points, when David [Benioff] and Dan [Weiss] and I had discussions about what way we should go in, I would always favor sticking with the books, while they would favor making changes," Martin told Time. "I think one of the biggest ones would probably be when they made the decision not to bring Catelyn Stark back as Lady Stoneheart. That was probably the first major diversion of the show from the books and, you know, I argued against that."

In a later interview with the Chinese Esquire (via CNET), Martin said that keeping Catelyn "is the change I most wish I could make in the (show)."

For most of its run in the 1960s, The Fugitive was popular, but it wasn't setting the world on fire. After season one, it sat 28th in ratings. Season two earned the show a top-ten spot, but then it dropped, explained Ron Simon, curator of Television and Radio at the Paley Center for Media in New York, to Vanity Fair. "By the third and fourth season, the show wasn't gathering momentum." But fans still cared about the show.

But The Fugitive was unique for its overarching multi-season mystery lingering over every episode. Would Richard Kimble solve his wife's murder and find the one-armed man? As the series neared the end, producer Leonard Goldberg knew that a proper ending was absolutely necessary. 

"I realized we were going to leave viewers empty-handed, and that was wrong," Goldberg he told Vanity Fair. "I went to the [higher-ups] at the network and said, 'We have to give people a conclusion.'" Apparently, the execs weren't so sure. In fact, they argued that TV audiences wouldn't even care and that a neatly ended series might not fare well in syndication.

"They are deeply invested," Goldberg argued. "This is our business; we are selling advertisers on the power of television, and yet we ourselves don't believe it? That seems odd." He won his fight. The two-episode finale aired and obliterated records. Of all TV viewers that night, 72% of them watched a finale for a show that hadn't been in the top 30 TV shows for two years.

There had been several joke kisses before it, but Jack and Ethan's passionate kiss on Dawson's Creek in 2000 was truly the first of its kind. Nearly 20 years later, we appreciate it for the groundbreaking moment it was. It's considered one the major milestone moments for gay representation in pop culture. It was also a big moment for Dawson's Creek – but it almost never happened.

According to the showrunner, Greg Berlanti, he had to really push the WB network to allow the only gay character on Dawson's Creek to have some on-screen romance. In fact, the kiss was only greenlit after he threatened to quit the show, he said in an interview with Vanity Fair. James Whitmore, the famous episode's director, told The Huffington Post that the WB allowed it because it liked the publicity more than it feared the potential backlash.

Even after they allowed it, there was on-set resistance. "The network said they wanted it filmed across the street from a very, very wide shot," said show writer Gina Fattore to Vanity Fair. "I was the one who was on set to produce it. Greg said to me, 'I want this to be a great kiss. I want there to be close-ups, and I want it to feel romantic.'"

"Jumping the shark" is a term that, according to TV Tropes, describes "the moment when an established long-running series changes in a significant manner." These moments may refer to a timestamp in the show, a symbolic scene, or the introduction of a new gimmick. 

The birth of this phrase comes from Happy Days. In season five, during the third part of "Hollywood," Arthur "Fonzie" Fonzarelli (Henry Winkler), jumped a shark while on waterskis and donning his iconic leather jacket. Now, the idea that Fonzie would jump a shark might seem preposterous, and it was, but it was grounded in something pure: a father's love. 

Apparently the waterskiing bit was all his father's idea. Since Winkler was an avid waterskier, his father advised him to suggest his character ski on Happy Days. "My father — a very, very, very short German person — he said, 'Tell them you water-ski,'" Winkler explained to Oprah on an episode of Where Are They Now? on OWN (via HuffPost). "I said, 'Dad, I probably won't do that...' He said, 'No, no, no, this is important they know this! You tell them you water-ski!'"

And what about the shark? According to Fred Fox Jr., a producer on Happy Days, no one remembers whose idea it was, though Fox does remember one thing. "What I definitely remember is that no one protested vehemently," he said. "Not one of us said, 'Fonzie, jump a shark? Are you out of your mind?'"

Wrestlemania III in 1987 was one of the biggest sporting entertainment events in history at the time. Though the actual in-house viewer numbers are disputed, millions across the country watched as Andre the Giant and Hulk Hogan faced off in the main event. The match went off without a hitch. Hogan showcased his legendary strength by slamming Andre and retaining his title. But the match almost never went off at all, and it certainly wasn't rehearsed. In fact, Complex reported that Hogan admits that he didn't even know if Andre was on board with him winning until the 11th hour.

In the ring and on screen, the match looked like a David vs. Goliath battle. Behind-the-scenes, however, it was more of a tragedy. "Andre was in terrible shape physically by that point in time," said wrestling historian Dave Meltzer revealed to Detroit News. "I've heard he was numb from the knees down and things like that. He couldn't do much of anything, he could barely move."

Watching the tape back, something clearly isn't right. Andre labored in the ring, often using the ropes for support. As for the "Slam Heard Around the World," Andre may have suggested it, but it also hid a sobering truth. "I know he had back surgery in '86, or else he wouldn't be able to wrestle," said Meltzer. "It was a famous surgery where they had to get new tools because the tools you'd use on normal human beings wouldn't work for him"