Strange Things About Lea Michele And Zandy Reich

Lea Michele and Zandy Reich have what's seemingly one of the most private relationships in Hollywood. Is that what happens when you date someone who isn't famous? Frankly, it's a breath of fresh air following all the heavy stuff surrounding the death of her boyfriend and Glee co-star Cory Monteith. It would also appear that the businessman has been Michele's rock during the sprawling allegations of racism and diva behavior from her former castmates. Perhaps he helped her rein in the alleged bad attitude. Who knows?

Nonetheless, Reich and Michele's relationship seems strong enough to endure the roadblocks, and they've certainly got their own quirks. What couple doesn't? Sadly, we don't mean that they burst into perfectly harmonized song and professionally choreographed dance routines during emotional moments in their lives. Although, that would be kind of great, especially if Jane Lynch was also there, wouldn't it?

Alright, Glee jokes aside, let's discuss how Reich and Michele jumped into their marriage with their own set of rules.

Lea Michele became the woman she is because of Cory Monteith. When he was still alive, he was the actress' biggest champion. In an interview with Teen Vogue, Michele revealed that her co-star boyfriend would always tell her she was "going to be a pop star." He listened to all of her songs and gave her extensive notes, and the drive and self-confidence that he helped foster only transcended his death. In that same cover story, Michele admitted that the "insane love" the pair shared "morphed into this strength that [she has] right now."

"There's just something about knowing he's watching everything I'm doing and feeling like I have to do everything now not just for me but for him," she said, adding, "I also have a safety net below me — if I fall or if it's too much, my friends and family will be there to catch me."

That drive kept Michele going, which ultimately helped her find lasting love again with Zandy Reich, even if it took years.

Zandy Reich and Lea Michele are proof that opposites attract. In the past, the Spring Awakening star has been linked strictly to high profile men in the entertainment industry. According to Life & Style, this includes Broadway stars Landon Beard, John Lloyd Young, and Theo Stockman; Glee co-star Cory Monteith; actor-slash-model Matthew Paetz; actor Robert Buckley; and musician Charlie Puth (she only went on a couple of dates with the latter).

Reich is nothing like the men Michele's dated in the past — at least not on his resume. And he wasn't a celebrity until Michele started posting about him on Instagram. In a 2016 interview with Penn Athletics, Reich, who was a starting lacrosse captain at the University of Pennsylvania, revealed he was launching his professional career at Goldman Sachs with a two-year contract. At the time he was trying to "live it up" until the bank worked him "very hard," but Reich didn't end up staying in the world of finance. He went on to become the head of business as the clothing brand Theory, before launching his own line AYR (All Year Round). 

For most of us, parental approval is key. It's a long, difficult road if you choose to marry someone your parents just can't stand — especially if you're close to your parents — but this wasn't the case for Lea Michele. Instead, she sought the approval of Glee co-creator Ryan Murphy, who plucked her out of Broadway and made her a bona fide TV star.

Michele had been dating Reich for a few months when Murphy — who Michele claimed was one of her "greatest friends in the world" and "family" — gave their relationship the okay. In an interview with Giuliana Rancic at the 2017 Emmy Awards (via People), the Scream Queens star admitted that they'd been hanging out with the screenwriter the day before. "When my boyfriend got the seal of approval from Ryan Murphy, that was it," she said. "Yeah my parents, yeah friends, whatever. But Ryan Murphy, it's a done deal — it sealed the deal."

Murphy approved so much that, according to W Magazine, he officiated the pair's wedding in 2019.

A proposal should be something that you remember for your entire life — even if it isn't a grand, romantic gesture. Theoretically, you're only tying the knot once (until that doesn't work out, you get divorced, and ultimately find love again). In any event, Lea Michele was so hyped up when Zandy Reich got down on one knee that she barely remembers any of it.

In an interview with People, the Glee star admitted that she was so surprised by Reich's proposal, which happened when the pair were visiting the Hamptons, that she thought he was joking. "Everyone said, 'Try to be present because it'll happen so quickly,' Which I didn't listen to at all and blacked out and I barely remember," she admitted. "We both blacked out and were like, 'What? Did we say yes? Is this happening?'" 

Thankfully, they've got a lifetime to make new memories — and they won't make the same mistake twice. According to E! News, they spent the first month of married life "basically reliving the best moments of their wedding," and looking through all the photos and videos, reaching out to everyone who attended, and enjoying their honeymoon. They're not going to forget their second major milestone! 

Based on what Lea Michele's Glee co-stars have said about her in the past, most us probably expected the Spring Awakening star to be an absolute bridezilla. You only have to search as far castmate Samantha Ware's racism accusations and her public feud with Naya Rivera to know that much. Strangely though, Michele was a low-key, laid back bride — at least that's what she says. Apparently, she ditched a couple tired old wedding traditions and went with the flow.

The first tradition she ditched was the excruciating search for a gown. There was no major hunt or a Say Yes to the Dress moment. In an interview with PeopleStyle, where she was promoting her Olly Vitamins partnership (did we mention that Michele is a walking piece of #SponCon?), the actress admitted she bought the first dress she tried on. It was the same day as her engagement party, and she wasn't wasting any time. "I'm a very decisive person so they said I was one of the easiest brides that they have ever dealt with," she said.

The next tradition that she skipped was the all-female bridal party. According to People, the actress enlisted her BFF Jonathan Groff (above), who starred alongside her in Spring Awakening and 14 episodes of Glee, as maid of honor. She did, however, stick with one tradition. Her registry was on Zola (who paid her God knows what) just like the rest of us.

Lea Michele wants a huge family with Zandy Reich. In a 2019 interview with Health, the actress admitted that within the next five years, she hoped to "be a mom of, like, 10 kids — if it's physically possible to pop that many out." It technically is if you start cranking out multiples, but as of this writing, she's at least planning to be a mother of one kid. In April 2020, People reported that the star was expecting her first child, and since then, she's been posting photos of her bump all over Instagram.

Though it seems like Michele conceived only a year or so after her wedding, it wasn't supposed to be easy. Per her Health interview, the star found out she had PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome) shortly after Glee wrapped — and she was nearing her 30th birthday. PCOS can cause infertility, but Michele worked really hard to manage her symptoms through diet. "There are way more extreme versions of PCOS that women have a lot of difficulty with — mine is not as intense," she told Health. "Which is why I haven't really talked about it, because there are women who have it so much more intense."

Now, the star is hoping to be a role model for her unborn child. She said as much in her multi-page Instagram apology following her racism accusations. There's no better time to change than the present.