What You Didn't Know About Conan O'Brien

One of the funniest comedians in Hollywood, Conan O'Brien has been a late-night television staple for decades. After being a behind-the-scenes writer for other comedians, O'Brien's big break came when he was the surprise choice to host the daily talk show, "Late Night with Conan O'Brien" on NBC, which followed "The Tonight Show," hosted by Jay Leno. After Leno decided to leave his slot, O'Brien was named the replacement, moving to the prime 11:30 time slot. But Leno didn't leave late-night TV — he instead had another show that started at 10 o'clock. Leno's new show "didn't do well. He wanted to go back to the 11:30 spot, and NBC let him do it," NPR recapped. NBC proposed "The Tonight Show" with O'Brien be pushed to after midnight, but the host declined and moved his talent to TBS for ten years with "Conan."

In 2021, "after 28 years of hosting daily late-night shows," O'Brien ended his TBS show. But this wasn't the end for O'Brien, who revealed he'd be moving to HBO Max to host "a weekly variety show on HBO Max." And this is in addition to his podcast, "Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend." O'Brien's life has seemed like a magical ride — working alongside some of the funniest people in entertainment. He's even been a mentor to future comedians and actors. And his gift to be naturally funny has been a constant throughout his career.

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After high school, Conan O'Brien stayed close to home for higher education. He began at Harvard University in 1981, where O'Brien's dad was also a professor. As a writer in high school, O'Brien was looking to join the staff at The Harvard Crimson — the university's daily newspaper. In fact, Jeff Zucker, the former NBC executive, and O'Brien's future boss, was a student at the same time and president of The Harvard Crimson, as revealed by The Boston Globe. But O'Brien's roommate suggested the young man look into joining The Harvard Lampoon instead, a publication focused on comedy. "O'Brien wrote several humor pieces for Lampoon editors, who were so impressed that they named him the only freshman writer chosen that year," Boston.com reported.

Despite the early praise, O'Brien still felt out of place in his new environment. "I came from this public high school, I really didn't know where I fit in. And suddenly, people were pointing me out as 'Oh, yeah, that's the guy that got on the Lampoon freshman year. They didn't take anybody else, and they took him,'" O'Brien remembered. He also confessed to feeling insecure at that time, "especially a place like Harvard where everybody's a genius at something." But O'Brien turned out to live up to a "genius" title. He was elected twice as the president of The Harvard Lampoon and graduated with distinguished honors — magna cum laude — for his American History degree.

After working for various TV series, Conan O'Brien landed an amazing opportunity. He joined the writing staff of "Saturday Night Live." Executive producer Lorne Michaels hired O'Brien in 1988 to join the team. At this time, the featured actors included Dana Carvey, Jon Lovitz, and Phil Hartman. "It was big-time television in the classic sense," O'Brien told Boston.com. "It was Rockefeller Center, big bands, studio audience, Tom Hanks, Bruce Willis, the biggest stars in the world, musical legends, costumes, an army of people building sets," he remembered of his time in New York City. One skit that O'Brien wrote during his tenure was the "Nude Beach" sketch featuring Matthew Broderick. The skit involves a bunch of men at a nude beach, who are uninhibited to openly look at and talk about the other guys' prized possessions.

One of the stars of "SNL" during O'Brien's time, Mike Myers, had a fond but also slightly creepy memory of the writer. While appearing as a guest on O'Brien's late-night show, Myers showed a letter given to him by O'Brien when the two worked together. The note said, "Mike — I'm going to destroy you. I'm not sure how, I'm not sure when. But I will destroy you. And the best part is that no one will believe I had anything to do with it. Yours, Conan." Even with the comical threat, Myers believed in O'Brien as an actor and wrote him into various live sketches.

After a career as a comedic writer, no one could have seen Conan O'Brien's lightning-fast rise into hosting duties, except, perhaps, one man: Lorne Michaels, the producer of "Saturday Night Live." The two knew each other from O'Brien's writing days, but the comedian had no idea how much the producer believed in him. In an interview for NPR, O'Brien explained that when NBC was looking for someone to host the "Late Night" talk show on its network, "Michaels took a complete Hail Mary pass and said, I know this writer, and he has, you know, very little performing experience besides some improv, but I think he could be good." With the recommendation from Michaels, the writer remembered, "I went to an audition and, because I had no chance, was completely relaxed in the audition and did really well." Looking back at the whirlwind scenario, O'Brien described it all as "dumb luck."

What makes O'Brien's style of comedy so unique displayed itself immediately after landing his late-night hosting duties. For example, he wrote a satirical article for The New York Times published on the day of the debut, criticizing himself. "Last week, this writer had the opportunity to watch a test show in Rockefeller Center's legendary studio 6-A. Frankly, I was not impressed," O'Brien wrote about himself. "Despite the considerable power of his raw sexuality and mesmerizing intellectual presence, this 'Late Night' may very well end up the late 'Late Night,'" he concluded.

Conan O'Brien is instantly known as a late-night host, but throughout his career, this comedian has been involved in smaller projects. For example, he lent his voice as Santa Claus to the Nickelodeon animated series "The Backyardigans." The kid's show later gained even more popularity thanks to a viral TikTok trend featuring the song "Into the Thick Of It!"

O'Brien also appeared in an episode of "How I Met Your Mother." Fans could easily miss the comedian, as he only appeared as an extra, standing in the background of a bar, as seen on YouTube. Screen Rant detailed how O'Brien landed on the set of the long-running comedy series. "When Neil Patrick Harris served as a guest on O'Brien's talk show the year before, it was revealed that O'Brien outbid himself for the walk-on role at a charity auction," the article explained. And while the creative team wanted to create a cameo role for O'Brien in the series, the late-night host "felt that it would be funnier if he just randomly appeared in the background." The team liked the idea, especially "because it's not uncommon for celebrities to appear unnoticed in New York City bars."

Another non-speaking cameo for O'Brien was in a music video. The video for "Everyday" by the Dave Matthews Band features 30 Rock actor Judah Friedlander hugging strangers. Then at one point, Friedlander surprises O'Brien with a big hug.

Though some say laughter is the best medicine, Conan O'Brien also gives back to the community in more ways than telling jokes. He's been involved with multiple charities throughout his career, according to Look to the Stars. For example, O'Brien was the host of the "Beat the Odds" awards ceremony supporting the Children's Defense Fund. The comedian told The Hollywood Reporter about the event, "It's our favorite night because it's the one night they sort of have their priorities in line in this town." O'Brien also once helped raise money for a Breast Cancer organization. He partnered with Waterpik to be one of the star personalities for a celebrity online auction the company hosted.

The comedian could have helped even more in his life, but he was once banned from a charity event. O'Brien was set to appear in the seasonal charity special "Idol Gives Back" for the singing competition "American Idol," per Reuters. Executives from the show, which aired on Fox, approached NBC to see if O'Brien would be allowed to participate in the charity special. And even though O'Brien had just ended his brief run as "The Tonight Show" host, O'Brien's contact didn't allow any other TV appearances. While the clause was nearing expiration, sadly, the timing didn't work out for O'Brien to be a part of "Idol Gives Back."

Conan O'Brien has devoted fans, thanks to his clever comedy and distinct personality. But one man took a terrifying interest in O'Brien. David Ajemian was a priest from Boston who wrote "menacing postcards and letters" to the late-night host, according to The New York Times. The report stated that Ajemian allegedly sent these notes, "some written on a parish letterhead," to the comedian's private home and to the TV studio for over a year. "The priest said in his correspondence that he had followed Mr. O'Brien's career since they both attended Harvard," per the article. The priest claimed in one letter that he was one of O'Brien's "most dangerous fans." And according to law enforcement working with the case, Ajemian continued to send these letters even after being asked to stop.

Perhaps the scariest note to O'Brien involved a part that talked about someone who "once dodged a bullet in your building, and so can you." Ajemian was finally arrested in New York after he tried to attend a taping of O'Brien's late-night show. He was "charged with stalking and harassing the talk show host." Ajemian pleaded guilty to the charges and was required to avoid O'Brien for two years. And he was placed on administrative leave from his church, according to The Harvard Crimson.

Outside of his duties in the entertainment industry, Conan O'Brien is entertaining his children. The comedian has two kids, his daughter Neve and son Beckett. In an interview for People, the late-night host explained what it was like to be a father of two. "Being a dad is the greatest, except for assembling things," he said. "I remember my father trying to tighten a bolt and hurting his fingers. That's what I'm doing now — except I break (the toy) before she even gets to play with it," O'Brien explained about Neve. 

In fact, much of O'Brien's parenting experience and advice involves his comedic spin. He called himself a "Tiger Dad" in an interview for Fatherly, explaining, "If my kids don't get straight A's, I threaten to practice the violin." And he also joked about how being a celebrity came into play as a dad. "I want my children to have as unhappy a childhood as I had. I don't take my children to premieres," he said.

At least one person believes that O'Brien has three and not two kids. A man who looked a bit like O'Brien claimed to be his illegitimate son, Boston Magazine detailed. Greg Keating, a man in New Jersey, posted a video on YouTube sharing details as to why he thinks the late-night host could be his real father. Keating said about the possibility, "In the video it's all speculation. But I can't count it out."